Relationship Needs Checklist

What is a Relationship Needs Checklist?

Relationships are as varied and individual as the people that enter into them. What is a red flag for one person can be a green flag for someone else, and we will all have a different idea of the “perfect” relationship.

Preferences in relationships are also subjective and often change over time as we grow and our life situation evolves. Your preferences for a relationship in your early twenties are likely very different from what you would look for in your forties, fifties, or beyond.

However, most of us can agree that a few aspects of relationships are good ingredients for a healthy relationship. These include communication, empathy, intimacy, respect, and acceptance.

Unlike highly subjective preferences such as physical appearance, religion, or career choice, these are universal values widely accepted and sought after as part of a healthy and emotionally satisfying relationship.

If you're looking to aid your patients in building healthy relationships, you can use a healthy relationship checklist. It is a tool for helping individuals recognize signs of a healthy relationship and assess the potential for growth in existing relationships.

Our Relationship Needs Checklist presents twenty relationship needs as a fillable checklist to help your clients assess which needs are being met in their current relationship and which could use some work.

This interactive resource is a great option for couples’ counseling homework, therapy activities, or mindful activities that help your clients reflect on their emotional needs.

How does it work?

Step 1: Download the template and provide it to your clients

The first step is to access this template using the link to the free printable Relationship Needs Checklist template provided on this page. 

Step 2: Fill out the name and date

Your client should then add their name and the date they completed the Relationship Needs Checklist for record-keeping purposes.

Step 3: Check off which needs your client feels are being met

The most important step is to work through the provided relationship needs and check what your client feels is being met in their current relationship or in the relationship they wish to dive deeper into during your session. Deep conversations can help clients understand which needs are being met and address any underlying issues.

Step 4: Tally up the final score

Once your client has completed the checklist, count up the number of ticks they gave to obtain a final score out of twenty. 

Step 5: Add any extra notes

There may be some needs your client wishes to discuss that are not provided on this list, and these can be written in the additional notes section. You can also note any extra comments, context, or thoughts your client has in session with you in this section to identify areas for improvement that can lead to a healthier relationship.

Step 6: Save securely

The last step is to save this checklist securely with the rest of your client's record so it can be accessed in the future. Carepatron's clinical documentation software is a great option for safe and accessible data storage for your clients' counseling records. 

Relationship Needs Checklist example (sample)

Take a look at our example Relationship Needs Checklist to get some inspiration on how this Checklist can help your clients reflect on their own needs. 

Download this Relationship Needs Checklist example: 

What do the results mean?

There are many ways this free Relationship Needs Checklist could look once finished. While there is no absolute interpretation of this checklist due to the subjectivity of emotional needs and what constitutes a strong relationship for your client, here is a simple way to interpret your client's results.

• 15 or more: A score of 15 or more indicates that most of your client's needs are met by their partner, and only a few need work. That being said, even if many or all of the needs are being met, there may still be therapeutic work to be done. This list is non-exhaustive, and your client may have other unmet needs that indicate a problem despite a high score on this checklist. 
• 10–15: A score of 10 or more indicates that your client feels that most of their needs are being met, but a reasonable number of needs could use some work. Depending on your client's preferences, values, and feelings toward their present relationship, these unmet needs could be a good focal point for future couples' therapy sessions. 
• 5–10: A score of between 5 and 10 means your client feels that many of their needs are unmet. Focusing on the missing needs is a good starting point during therapy sessions.
• Less than 5: A score of less than 5 indicates that your client feels that most of their needs are not being met, indicative of the presence of unhappy or unhealthy relationships that must be worked on and addressed.

Why use Carepatron as your Relationship Needs Checklist app?

Carepatron offers a comprehensive range of time-saving solutions designed to streamline administrative tasks. Using Carepatron as your Relationship Checklist app provides access not only to its template within the app but also to a library of assessments, intake forms, chart templates, and more. Using Carepatron can help clients feel a clearer sense of their relationship needs and progress.

Carepatron simplifies note-taking, saving time while enhancing accuracy with AI-powered medical dictation software. Benefit from the convenience of desktop and mobile platforms, granting access anytime and from any location.

Carepatron’s integrated telehealth platform facilitates seamless video sessions, fostering efficient client communication. Your clients can also benefit from dedicated patient portal software, which facilitates appointment booking, access to their records, and communication with you.

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